Reggae–sorry things are so undesirable at home. Not sure what to say….. But I do agree with Manilla. Marriage does not equal soul mate. There must have been something there once,….the reason(s) you married him in the first place, right? Is that totally gone?
A broken home (ie mom and dad split) can sometimes be better for everyone involved, including children, than sticking together just for the sake of sticking together. Make sense?